I met Jeff during staff week. I thought he was a nice guy, but I wasn’t interested in a relationship. Unbeknownst to me, he had a big crush on me the whole summer of 1978. Our paths crossed over the years, but it wasn’t until August of 1982, when we saw each other at the Library Minyan of Temple Beth Am, that we decided to go out.Long over his crush, Jeff had given up on me, figured I would introduce him to my friends. I recognized what an amazing guy he was.We began dating, got engaged Purim of 1984 and married over Labor Day weekend of 1984. If it had not been for our initial meeting and getting to know each other at Ramah, I’m not sure we would have gone out four years later.